One response to “Who’s In Charge of What, Now? Defining Areas of Control and Spheres of Influence”

  1. subtoJB

    Another great article, Sir. (And I’m not just saying that because I’m partial…)

    I’d like to echo what I believe to be another main point about the Spheres of Influence category. In some cases, I need “input” from Sir and it may not fall under an area he controls. It helps me to say “I’d always like to receive your input in this area” and leave it open so that when it comes up, Sir will graciously offer his opinion so I know how he feels about it, At that point I can move forward knowing where he stands. This would probably not work as well in a 24/7 TPE relationship, but it works very well in a D/s relationship.

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