The Impracticality of Endless Rules and When To Say Goodbye
In general, submissives love rules. They expect them, even in the context of a scene at a party. Feeling control from the dominant is a secure and satisfying feeling for the submissive. Obedience that you, as dominant, recognize and praise warms the submissive heart. The downside of this is that enforcing rules can be a [...]
“What Are We Going To Do Today, Dom?” – Some Ideas to Keep A Dynamic… Dynamic
It’s hard work, being a Dom. Planning, being in charge all of the time, figuring out what our subs should be learning next, directing their growth, coming up with all of the brilliantly devious ideas we have for torture– er… play time… This is not at all the “sit on our butts and have every [...]
Let’s Explore: Play Parties
This page has been compiled from Wikipedia, Wipipedia and our own research. It also appears on this site in the new Encyclopedia under Play party. A play party is a (usually) private party for people into the BDSM lifestyle where the primary purpose of the event is to allow people to scene (play) in public and socialize with like-minded people. Play [...]
Personal Views on Protocol
This is a guest post by Dagger Dom. It was found on the now defunct website TheBRC.net with a note that it could be freely distributed. We are sharing it here because the topic still holds value today. This was written in the spring of 1998 in response to some matters on a mailing list. [...]
Basics of Dungeon Etiquette
Seriously, a Dungeon? The word has a lovely, dark, evocative feel, doesn’t it? “Dungeon” is a term you’ll hear a lot in BDSM circles. And they can be dark and lovely, even a little creepy (in a good way), but really a Dungeon is just a space designated for BDSM play. It can be someone’s [...]
