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Ask Anything: How Can an Experienced Submissive Help a New Dominant?

By Rev on October 9, 2013

A reader asks:“My Fiancé’ also my Dominant is new to the lifestyle. I am not. But i don’t know if giving him advice is being “unsub” like. For eg. How do I tell him how to do something without seeming bossy. What is the best way for him to explore and learn about the lifestyle. [...]

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What is Service Topping?

By Rev on January 21, 2013

Definitions are always interesting. I know what I mean when I use a term, but when I look for definitions or ask around, I hear so many different versions. It’s one of the things I both love and am frustrated by when it comes to language. So, for the sake of an intro to the [...]

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