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Can Someone Learn to be a Dominant?

By Rev on March 30, 2015

One of the questions that comes up from time to time amounts to “how can I learn to be a Dominant”? It can sound like, “There’s the person I want to get with and they say I’m not Dominant enough. How do I fix that?” Or, my sweetheart wants me to try BDSM and wants [...]

Posted in Dominance, Dynamics | Tagged being assertive, being authentic, being Dominant, being dominant to please someone, desire and BDSM, Fake Doms, getting my partner to Dominate me, how do I know if I'm Dominant, how do I know what to call myself, keeping my partner happy, partner wants more, Rev | 1 Response

Ask Anything: I’m Having Trouble Speaking Up About What I  Want

Ask Anything: I’m Having Trouble Speaking Up About What I Want

By Rev on January 7, 2015

A Reader Asks:   “Hello! I’m a novice sub who is currently hoping to be collared by an experienced Dominant couple. The thing is, I find it particularly difficult to “negotiate” a scene or talk about scenarios. What do I say? I want to be tied up, humiliated and fucked. On two levels talking about [...]

Posted in Ask Anything, Dominance, Dynamics | Tagged being assertive, communication, D/s relationships, needs and wants, negotiations, new relationships, shame, submissive communication | 3 Responses

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