Can Someone Learn to be a Dominant?
One of the questions that comes up from time to time amounts to “how can I learn to be a Dominant”? It can sound like, “There’s the person I want to get with and they say I’m not Dominant enough. How do I fix that?” Or, my sweetheart wants me to try BDSM and wants [...]
Ask Anything: I’m Having Trouble Speaking Up About What I Want
A Reader Asks: “Hello! I’m a novice sub who is currently hoping to be collared by an experienced Dominant couple. The thing is, I find it particularly difficult to “negotiate” a scene or talk about scenarios. What do I say? I want to be tied up, humiliated and fucked. On two levels talking about [...]
