When I connected with the BDSM community in 2008, I found so much more than a way to engage my kinks: a place to explore BDSM as well as my deepest human nature. For me, kink is not only sexual, but spiritual, emotional, and psychological, as well as a profound path for self- and other-exploration; in other words: intimacy, which may be my biggest kink. With years of mentoring, ministering, coaching, and teaching under my belt, I'm excited to share my ever expanding knowledge and experience with Dominant Guide readers, in a mutual learning process with you and the whole kink community. Rev was the lead author for Dominant Guide from 2012 to 2015

4 responses to “Getting into Dominant Headspace”

  1. Heidi

    Very helpful!

    I am new and finally I have found someone that seems to have promise. I have been interviewing, via on-line, lists sites, etc. I have even had a couple of Masters discuss the difficulty finding subs-

    Well, I have! I am wondering if anyone has any advice for on-line Dom ideas.


  2. Master Steve

    Having been away from the “scene” for a long time and having started as a sub early on in my youth, I find this advice invaluable. I’ve recently begun training a man who would not normally be my type, but I was amazed at how easily I stepped into the role after he began submitting his assignments and on the day of the first session once I performed a few initial rituals. The energy that courses through me was exhilarating.

    I worried at first that he would see through my initial nervousness, but when I arrived and he was on the floor naked to welcome me everything changed. We will see how it develops, but I’m grateful for this site and the help it has given me so far in re-establishing my confidence.

    Thank you.

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