J. Blank, aka The Dominant Gentleman, strongly believes that being Dominant doesn't preclude one from also behaving as a Gentleman (or Lady), and that respect is paramount in any relationship, especially D/s relationships. A "real world" relationship and life coach with a kink-friendly practice, J. spends his days helping people figure out what they really want, and take steps to achieve it. Which gives him some unique insights into the amazing world that is the human psyche. Because of this, J. believes Doms have a nigh-sacred responsibility to their subs, and can sometimes be found on Twitter (@Jason_Blank), loudly ranting about the difference between a Dom and, as he puts it, "a jackass with ego issues." He can be reached by email at DomJBlank (at) gmail (dot) com.

2 responses to “Ask Anything – I Need My Husband to Be a Serious Dom”

  1. Sylc

    I’m relatively new and I need help and guidance.

  2. blazingsun

    Sometimes being explicit helps. If you want you can write contract submitting to him or an email and the in limit can be the hint. I know a couple that had a signed paper she gave to him permission, stating the minor bruising injuries etc were her responsibility, and things like I can ask her to leave the house in case of disobedience etc. This type of signed contract/email also helps them understand the limit, express what is difficult to say and also serve other purpose

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