J. Blank, aka The Dominant Gentleman, strongly believes that being Dominant doesn't preclude one from also behaving as a Gentleman (or Lady), and that respect is paramount in any relationship, especially D/s relationships. A "real world" relationship and life coach with a kink-friendly practice, J. spends his days helping people figure out what they really want, and take steps to achieve it. Which gives him some unique insights into the amazing world that is the human psyche. Because of this, J. believes Doms have a nigh-sacred responsibility to their subs, and can sometimes be found on Twitter (@Jason_Blank), loudly ranting about the difference between a Dom and, as he puts it, "a jackass with ego issues." He can be reached by email at DomJBlank (at) gmail (dot) com.

One response to “Ask Anything – Online Submissive – Quick In, Quick Out?”

  1. Kathleen

    I find this issue has come to the fore in the evolving relationship between my Dom and me. Years of self-defense have made snipey, verbally cutting and otherwise disrespectful at times. “shut up, you asshole” rolls off my tongue, it’s an expression and unconscious til this point.
    Had I not become involved in a D/s relationship, I don’t know when, if ever, I would have noticed it.

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