When I connected with the BDSM community in 2008, I found so much more than a way to engage my kinks: a place to explore BDSM as well as my deepest human nature. For me, kink is not only sexual, but spiritual, emotional, and psychological, as well as a profound path for self- and other-exploration; in other words: intimacy, which may be my biggest kink. With years of mentoring, ministering, coaching, and teaching under my belt, I'm excited to share my ever expanding knowledge and experience with Dominant Guide readers, in a mutual learning process with you and the whole kink community. Rev was the lead author for Dominant Guide from 2012 to 2015

One response to “You Might Be a Dominant If…”

  1. Alex

    I have a question, though I dont have that much faith itll be answered.
    Ill be blunt, I never would in a million years have ever considered bdsm. Much less that I
    Could be dominant. I dont know, I never considered ordering someone around. From the lingo ive learned Ive gathered I was pretty much vanilla. But theres a girl who told me she was sub, moreso brat but anyways. I decided to have fun with it for a while, and she was confused because she didnt think I knew the effect I was having on her ( im truly an innocent bean). I started to enjoy it. A lot. I really liked the feeling of being able to get in her head. I promise I’m getting to the question. Ive done some research after all of this but I cant find anything on this. Even though I like the idea of being dominant, there are some parts I dont like that much. Are there levels to it, what am I, and can I be considered dominant? Oh and is it fast to pick up.

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