When I connected with the BDSM community in 2008, I found so much more than a way to engage my kinks: a place to explore BDSM as well as my deepest human nature. For me, kink is not only sexual, but spiritual, emotional, and psychological, as well as a profound path for self- and other-exploration; in other words: intimacy, which may be my biggest kink. With years of mentoring, ministering, coaching, and teaching under my belt, I'm excited to share my ever expanding knowledge and experience with Dominant Guide readers, in a mutual learning process with you and the whole kink community. Rev was the lead author for Dominant Guide from 2012 to 2015

2 responses to “BDSM or Abuse? Consent Changes Everything”

  1. T.O.M.

    Another great post, and one I can relate to. Being your typical male of my generation expressing feelings is not something we do, hell we are not even really good at talking at all. This over the years has been at thr root of most of the heart ache in my life. I am now just coming to realize it and it is , as you say a hard thing to do at first . It is however something that needs to be done. The surprise to me was that this lifestyle has started to open gates that have in the past been very rusted shut. But it is a journey and I try to put one fot in front of the other nad keep both out of my mouth.

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