When I connected with the BDSM community in 2008, I found so much more than a way to engage my kinks: a place to explore BDSM as well as my deepest human nature. For me, kink is not only sexual, but spiritual, emotional, and psychological, as well as a profound path for self- and other-exploration; in other words: intimacy, which may be my biggest kink. With years of mentoring, ministering, coaching, and teaching under my belt, I'm excited to share my ever expanding knowledge and experience with Dominant Guide readers, in a mutual learning process with you and the whole kink community. Rev was the lead author for Dominant Guide from 2012 to 2015

2 responses to “Ask Anything: Tasks to See if a Submissive is Serious About Training”

  1. cucuy

    Ive recently gotten back into the lifestyle and ive come across two girls who professed desires to be dominated. Neither one was willing to open up about their limits wants or needs. I gave them both assignments and deadlines to complete simple checklists of what they wanted were interested in or were hard limits. Both shirked the assignment. I cut them both. I didnt think they were serious. I secod guess myself alot but if a potential sub cant communicate with me then i dont know where to begin where to stop or what level of dominance they require.

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