J. Blank, aka The Dominant Gentleman, strongly believes that being Dominant doesn't preclude one from also behaving as a Gentleman (or Lady), and that respect is paramount in any relationship, especially D/s relationships. A "real world" relationship and life coach with a kink-friendly practice, J. spends his days helping people figure out what they really want, and take steps to achieve it. Which gives him some unique insights into the amazing world that is the human psyche. Because of this, J. believes Doms have a nigh-sacred responsibility to their subs, and can sometimes be found on Twitter (@Jason_Blank), loudly ranting about the difference between a Dom and, as he puts it, "a jackass with ego issues." He can be reached by email at DomJBlank (at) gmail (dot) com.

3 responses to “Being Consistent is Hard – But Not Consistently So”

  1. Madame Beatrixx

    What a spot-on article, and perfect timing for where I am with both. I’m glad I stumbled across your guide and this post in particular. Looking forward to listening to your pearls. Oh yeah, I’m a female Domme.

  2. David h

    I recently got involved with a girl who liked being spanked. Well one thing led to another and now I’m a dom. I also just started doing the exact things you mentioned. Chasing what you really want, growing and encouraging growth in others. I’m glad I read this. I have a much better idea of my responsibilities now. Thank you.

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