When I connected with the BDSM community in 2008, I found so much more than a way to engage my kinks: a place to explore BDSM as well as my deepest human nature. For me, kink is not only sexual, but spiritual, emotional, and psychological, as well as a profound path for self- and other-exploration; in other words: intimacy, which may be my biggest kink. With years of mentoring, ministering, coaching, and teaching under my belt, I'm excited to share my ever expanding knowledge and experience with Dominant Guide readers, in a mutual learning process with you and the whole kink community. Rev was the lead author for Dominant Guide from 2012 to 2015

One response to “Ask Anything: Questions About Dynamics in Our New D/s Relationship”

  1. Socialoutcast91

    I’ve been told that I am a natural leader in the sense that people tend to be at ease around me and trust me a lot because of my overall presence. Is this the same as being an Alpha or Dom? Is it possible to be submissive but want control? At times I day dream about just being able to tell some one about myself and my personality then let them take control. I am tired of having to make all the decisions, money, etc. and I need some one more experienced in the bed room because I have a hard time expressing myself I there. But at the same time I need to feel safe and in control of the situation or at least part of the process before a decision is made. Does this make any sense?

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