When I connected with the BDSM community in 2008, I found so much more than a way to engage my kinks: a place to explore BDSM as well as my deepest human nature. For me, kink is not only sexual, but spiritual, emotional, and psychological, as well as a profound path for self- and other-exploration; in other words: intimacy, which may be my biggest kink. With years of mentoring, ministering, coaching, and teaching under my belt, I'm excited to share my ever expanding knowledge and experience with Dominant Guide readers, in a mutual learning process with you and the whole kink community. Rev was the lead author for Dominant Guide from 2012 to 2015

4 responses to “What We Are to Each Other”

  1. subtoJB

    Rev,
    Another amazing article! From my submissive standpoint, I can totally relate to what you’re talking about. I remember once admitting to Sir that I’d do anything he asked of me just because he is so all-encompassingly wonderful. It’s a magical thing when a relationship gets to that point. I want to push myself because I know he values it, and conversely I’m glad that he pushes my limits and takes me out of my comfort zone. “I think I can do a little more” sums it up perfectly.

    Thank you again for all that you do!

    -subtoJB

  2. M.T. Heart

    The very words you pen are ripped from my own consciousness. I absolutely believe in the spiritual side. The trust, the give, the intimacy. All of it! What a great piece!!

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