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9 responses to “Ask Anything: Can I Get My Domme Friend to Wear My Collar?”

  1. Real American

    Just let her know she’s not a domme and just a sub slut force her to submit and enjoy your new fucktoy!

  2. Real American

    Physically?… Sure if they were stronger or somehow drugged and bound me, but if you meant mentally, well… That really comes down to the individual, I don’t think I could be made into a sub but it would depend on how much time they had to break me down and what they’d be willing to do… I suppose it’d be possible, but I can’t imagine myself breaking in any practical time frame (and I have quite an imagination) so unless they’re interested in having a senior citizen as a fucktoy, I think I’m safe.

  3. Real American

    As to the fight, I guess if you’re trying it with someone of a similar size sure… or you could try it after they’ve been tied no need for a fight. And jail would only be an issue if you didn’t break them, so if you have doubts of success best to not go for it.

  4. Real American

    Sure, but once they’re broken it won’t matter… they’ll just exist to service their master.

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