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2 responses to “Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts – Part One: Dominants”

  1. Karin

    Well written, I myself play with my sub hubby and always look after his needs. It’s a 2way relationship
    I know what he needs after 30 + years together but it took along time to get to where we are today. Xxx

  2. Gundu Reddy

    I am glad you wrote this post . I have had a hard time explaining to patients the difference between role play , sublimating unconscious drives and abuse . You have articulated it beautifully for me and helped me organize my own thoughts . Even sub Dom relationships are reciprocal where both parties have a responsibility to understand the needs and emotions of the other and the big picture is to nurture . If faced with another situation where I feel that a so called dominant is an abuser I will be diverting to your blog .

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