When I connected with the BDSM community in 2008, I found so much more than a way to engage my kinks: a place to explore BDSM as well as my deepest human nature. For me, kink is not only sexual, but spiritual, emotional, and psychological, as well as a profound path for self- and other-exploration; in other words: intimacy, which may be my biggest kink. With years of mentoring, ministering, coaching, and teaching under my belt, I'm excited to share my ever expanding knowledge and experience with Dominant Guide readers, in a mutual learning process with you and the whole kink community. Rev was the lead author for Dominant Guide from 2012 to 2015

2 responses to “Ask Anything: Communication, Consistency and Differing Needs for Play”

  1. Mistress Bella

    I have a question. I am an online Mistress. I have a close Domme friend and I get the feeling that there is the want on her part to be uncapped and collared by Me. But she shows reluctance in letting go of some things. Is there a technique or any advice that You could offer Me in either claiming Her as Mine or discussing this with Her? Any advice would be wonderful. Thank You.

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