When I connected with the BDSM community in 2008, I found so much more than a way to engage my kinks: a place to explore BDSM as well as my deepest human nature. For me, kink is not only sexual, but spiritual, emotional, and psychological, as well as a profound path for self- and other-exploration; in other words: intimacy, which may be my biggest kink. With years of mentoring, ministering, coaching, and teaching under my belt, I'm excited to share my ever expanding knowledge and experience with Dominant Guide readers, in a mutual learning process with you and the whole kink community. Rev was the lead author for Dominant Guide from 2012 to 2015

2 responses to “Dating in the BDSM World: A Snapshot from One Dominant’s Love Life”

  1. LittleOnika

    I wish I knew more of the community in the Washington area. (I’m not too far from Tacoma) and honestly, I’m a bit nervous to go out and look for people to talk to. I am NOT looking for a D. (I have one…) I just have not been here that long. Do you have any groups I could get in contact with?

  2. lunaKM

    Are you a member of FetLife.com? It’s a social network for kinky people and a lot of groups use it as a base for sharing events and group meetings. You’ll likely find a group near you to contact.

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