J. Blank, aka The Dominant Gentleman, strongly believes that being Dominant doesn't preclude one from also behaving as a Gentleman (or Lady), and that respect is paramount in any relationship, especially D/s relationships. A "real world" relationship and life coach with a kink-friendly practice, J. spends his days helping people figure out what they really want, and take steps to achieve it. Which gives him some unique insights into the amazing world that is the human psyche. Because of this, J. believes Doms have a nigh-sacred responsibility to their subs, and can sometimes be found on Twitter (@Jason_Blank), loudly ranting about the difference between a Dom and, as he puts it, "a jackass with ego issues." He can be reached by email at DomJBlank (at) gmail (dot) com.

5 responses to “Check! Listing Ways to Make Me Happy”

  1. Paul Haley

    My girlfriend, who is also My Mistress and Dominatrix , now would like to be a submissive to me.. I am ,by nature a submissive,her submissive. So this switch would be only temporary,and would only last for 20 minutes, Anyway ,what things should I do to her !

  2. Morgan

    That is a great question! It really depends on her, what she likes and what you’re okay with. If she’s your Dominant, perhaps you could ask her that question- what is it she wants from you as a Top?


  3. Paul Haley

    I really don’t know,,but I will follow your advice and ask her..I think she would enjoy being told what to do .

  4. Morgan

    It’s important to talk about interests and limits, probably as she did with you before you played the first time.
    It helps that you know each other a bit already, yet it’s still a good idea to talk beforehand. My boy and I have a similar dynamic going on by the way. Good times! Have fun.


  5. Richard Jameslon

    Great ideas..

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