Ask Anything: Not Interested in SM

Ask Anything: Not Interested in SM

A DominantGuide.com reader asks: “Hello, I have the desire to be ‘Dominant’ towards another person (preferably a girlfriend or boyfriend [I'm Bisexual]) in that I take control of their day-to-day life and the relationship as a whole (with their consent, of course) but I am not interested in a sadistic/masochistic sex life. Would I therefore [...]

Ask Anything – Can Dominance be taught or learned?

Ask Anything – Can Dominance be taught or learned?

Written in to DominantGuide.com: I am a slave/submissive female. I have been for as long as i can remember. And basically all of my relationships i was lucky enough to have a master/dom as my boyfriend. However, i am now in a relationship where my SO has never done anything BDSM or kink at all. [...]

Ask A Dominant – Expressing Different Dynamic Desires

Ask A Dominant – Expressing Different Dynamic Desires

Message to DominantGuide.com: Hello. So my Boyfriend and I are into some light-medium BDSM in the bedroom (breatheable ball gags, fur lined cuffs, paddles, semi harsh flogger, wide head riding crop, those types of activities) And I met him on a BDSM website where I told him, implicitly, I don’t want the 24/7 Dom/sub Master/slave [...]

Ask Anything – Sharing Submissives Etiquette

Ask Anything – Sharing Submissives Etiquette

A reader asked: How a dom ask another dom to use his sub (?)   I am going to do a bit of expansion and putting pieces together here with such a… brief… lead in. I believe the questions that is being asked here is, “If I am a Dominant who is interested in having [...]