Ask Anything – Can Dominance be taught or learned?

Ask Anything – Can Dominance be taught or learned?

Written in to DominantGuide.com: I am a slave/submissive female. I have been for as long as i can remember. And basically all of my relationships i was lucky enough to have a master/dom as my boyfriend. However, i am now in a relationship where my SO has never done anything BDSM or kink at all. [...]

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Ask A Dominant – Expressing Different Dynamic Desires

Ask A Dominant – Expressing Different Dynamic Desires

Message to DominantGuide.com: Hello. So my Boyfriend and I are into some light-medium BDSM in the bedroom (breatheable ball gags, fur lined cuffs, paddles, semi harsh flogger, wide head riding crop, those types of activities) And I met him on a BDSM website where I told him, implicitly, I don’t want the 24/7 Dom/sub Master/slave [...]

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Ask Anything – Sharing Submissives Etiquette

Ask Anything – Sharing Submissives Etiquette

A reader asked: How a dom ask another dom to use his sub (?)   I am going to do a bit of expansion and putting pieces together here with such a… brief… lead in. I believe the questions that is being asked here is, “If I am a Dominant who is interested in having [...]

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Maintaining Dominance Around The Family

Maintaining Dominance Around The Family

Any of us who are trying to maintain a Power Exchange dynamic will understand the frustration. You have a beautiful partner all ready and willing to drop to bended knee and serve you. But nope. Not now. Try again later. See the kiddos are watching and waiting for a ride to the baseball field, or [...]

Three Major Categories of “BDSM”

Three Major Categories of “BDSM”

When starting to look at all that falls under the “BDSM” umbrella, one starts to notice that there are so many things that can be included. It can be overwhelming when you realize that intricate rope art, ABDL (adult baby/diaper lovers), Dominants and submissives, and people who long for blood play all exist in the [...]